So if you've simply enjoyed some intimate proximity with another guy, and found yourself enjoying that it has nothing to do with sexuality. But much has been written about how this is really unfortunate and guys in particular should hug more. Though in my experience, outside the realm of raves, people don't hug. Turns out he and his parents are just really big huggers.
Was a kid here who startled me hugging me. We all enjoy being close to one another but it has nothing to do with our sexuality. Unfortunately, our culture is very sex-negative and while we "permit" women to be emotional and even somewhat intimate without labelling them as lesbian, that tolerance doesn't extend to men. Women cuddle together and don't identify as lesbian because of it. Who's gay and who isn't is entirely up to the person who's going to use that label to define themselves.
Is Michael Douglas and Matt Damon gay for that Liberace movie they both 'had sex with each other' in? Or are they just professional actors? Is a prisoner gay for having sex with other men while in prison, but once released returning to a man-woman thing? It's entirely up to you how you label yourself. I think you're probably a bit further along, but the "naked type of gay" might be roughly in the same category - when you think of naked type of anyone, is that kind of gross one can tell another they're gay or straight or anything else. She currently thinks kissing anyone at all is kind of gross. There are boys she likes a lot, and wants to spend time with, and wouldn't mind hugging or whatever - but is that a crush? She has a lot of good friends who are boys, and her female friends are always asking her if she has a "crush" on this boy or that boy, and it's not always obvious to her. My daughter is 11 also and has a hard time with defining that.
The other question is what "attracted" means, though. (You don't seem that freaked though, which is good.) Probably no need to tell your parents anything yet.
If you're confused, though, just wait and see a bit. If you absolutely have only ever been attracted to boys, and have no interest in girls, then that's one thing. You don't have to make a decision now, especially if you're confused. I would appreciate it if you could comment and help me out, tell me if i am gay or if you have any suggestions agree with Joe. I am also afraid of what my parents will say if i tell them that im gay (if i am). I also want to be known as a straight man when i grow up but i want to know what it feels like to kiss a guy. Two that i really loved but the others they liked me. I dont like the naked type of gay but more the living in a house kissing and more like friends rather than a relasionship.Īlthough, i do like girls. And the boy that layed down next to me had mentioned that he had a gay friend and that the gay liked him but now im kinda starting to like him. Finnaly i found able2know that had others relating to my situation. For the past 2 weeks i've been searching websites about other peoples stories or websites that i could post my very own. At first i was like wtf but then i actually started to like it. So one night only one of my friends came up and this time, he came a bit closer to me. I was at camp a week or two ago (one week canp) and my counseler would always put on a movie so my friends from the cabin would always come up. You may find it weird but im 11 and im starting to get gay feelings.